*The above video is the speech Meagan gave at North America’s Largest Inspirational Competition’s annual grand slam event on 11/9/24.
In life, we often find ourselves walking through dense fog—a haze created by shame, fear, and self-doubt. This fog clouds our vision, making it hard to see who we truly are or where we’re meant to go. But what if I told you that the way to clear the fog is something we all have within us? That something is love.
There was a time in my life when I couldn’t see my own light. The fog of rejection and disapproval surrounded me, making it feel impossible to move forward, especially as I struggled to navigate my identity in a world that didn’t always accept it.
Then, I discovered that love—both for myself and for others—was the light that could cut through the haze. By choosing love over fear, I started to see myself clearly for the first time. Love doesn’t shout; it doesn’t demand. It’s a gentle, steady light that reminds us of our worth, our truth, and our resilience.
When we lead with love, the fog begins to lift. We stop seeking external validation and instead embrace the unique, beautiful individuals we are. This doesn’t just free us—it inspires others to step into their own light.
So if you find yourself lost in the fog, ask yourself: Who do I want to be right now? The light you’re searching for isn’t outside of you—it’s been inside you all along.
Meagan O’Nan is an award-winning author, speaker, and expert in human connection, specializing in using vulnerable storytelling to bridge divides. She has authored three books: Creating Your Heaven on Earth, Courage: Agreeing to Disagree Is Not Enough, and Held and Free. Meagan has worked with numerous organizations including Inspire Brands, Toyota, Red Cross National, and Forbes. She received personal recognition from Desmond Tutu for a talk on forgiveness. Passionate about transforming fear into strength, Meagan lives in Starkville, Mississippi, with her wife Clare, daughter Merit, and their pets. She won North America's Largest Inspirational Speaking Competition for her speech on being outed in Conservative Mississippi by an ex-boyfriend. @megonan
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